Have you been in love with that special someone for a while, and are now getting ready to take the plunge? Have you been starry-eyed about walking down the aisle while your friends and family watch you in your bridal avatar with sheer joy and pride? Have you been thinking lately to take your relationship beyond the realm of dating and instead sign up for a bond that lasts for a lifetime and even beyond? Wedding bells are ringing in your head and you are blushing, aren’t you?
Marriage is a beautiful institution wherein two souls unite. They commit to being in love with each other for the rest of their lives. They also pledge to be hand in hand with all the crests and troughs of life. If you manage to get lucky, marriage is like having a sleepover with your best friend each night of your life! Being married to the love of your life can be a great recipe for wellbeing, and that has been backed by a significant amount of science too (1), (2), (3). But not every marriage can be a fairy tale one and not every married person is as committed and loving towards their better halves.
For time immemorial, it has been a known fact that there is certainly a deep relationship between one’s zodiac sign and one’s personality traits. It would be an interesting point to note that people born under certain zodiac signs tend to be more afraid of commitment than the rest. Read on to know which are the zodiac signs that don’t like the idea of a ‘lifelong’ relationship as much as the rest!
1. Aries (March 21st – April 19th)
The Arian almost sounds like the ‘alien’, doesn’t it? In the matters of the heart, the people born under this zodiac sign indeed are a little alien-like. Usually, they set the rules and they don’t let anyone bend said rules. They have also been found to be very high-handed and seldom beat a retreat. This nature can be hard to handle, especially when you are married to them. Such people are capable of shedding anything and everything that doesn’t fit their expectations or beliefs, so a small tiff could also equal to a trip to the family court. Watch out if you are dating someone born under this sign.
2. Gemini (May 21st – June 20th)
Geminis are a very affable lot. Their friendly demeanour, lust for life, and never-ending enthusiasm will never fail to make you drool over them. However, you might be in for a rude shock if you are planning to discuss the possibility of marriage with a person born under this zodiac sign. This same lively person is very likely to turn into a cold and frigid person if you happen to broach the idea of longterm commitment. Such people love their independence a tad too much and anything and everything that binds them is meant to be given up. So, if you are dating a Gemini, it may be possible that your sweetheart will vanish the day you talk about marriage.
3. Sagittarius (November 22nd – December 19th)
They are known as the ‘archers’ in the zodiac sign and it isn’t surprising that they made you their target. It is not very difficult to love them; however, they are free souls that hate to be bound by anything. Archers tend to be more comfortable in the company of friends than with their beloved. If you expect them to commit within a month of your dating, you probably will never see them again. Marrying an archer could spell loneliness for you (remember they love friends more than their love), so be very cautious.
4. Aquarius (January 20th – February 18th)
They seem to be the queerest of the lot when it comes to a long-term relationship. Initially, when you date them, they come across as neck-deep in love with you. But the moment you utter a word about commitment, you will encounter a deafening silence and the feelings fly out of the window. Being married to Aquarians isn’t the easiest thing as they are prone to keeping their emotions bottled up in their chests. In a happy marriage, communication is the key, so be prepared to stay locked in misery and unhappiness if you ever marry a stubborn Aquarian.
Being married is to fall in love with the same person repeatedly. Some people, however, have a different idea of relationships and that doesn’t mean they are bad. While it is good to know the challenges that you may face if you dated a person born under any of the 4 zodiac signs mentioned above, it certainly doesn’t mean that a relationship with them is fated to end in disaster.
True love for your partner, willingness to take one step at a time, and gallons of faith in your relationship will certainly do more wonders than what the stars may suggest. Hence, may your love be seamless and may you both be together till the end of time and even beyond!